when you were in your 20s , the dating scene wasn't really an issue for anyone of us. Since most of your friends are still dating different kinds of species. But after 10 years, and 5 years..you suddenly realize that your facebook has become an album of wedding anniversaries, endless children's parties, family vacations.. and your page still suck at with your own selfies.
But life ain't suppose to be dull. I use to be sad and scared about what it would be like to be alone in the rest of my life. I mean, should i really labeled as alone?
You got a great job even if you wanted to kill your boss in your dreams sometimes, you have had some the luxuries in life, traveled a bit and endless amount of married friends. Life shouldn't suck. But people make it suck for us singles. Or maybe they are just bored and jealous. Its not everyday you wake up and you only worry about yourself and nothing else.
I do wonder, if marriage is the answer to complete someone's hermit life. I would somehow exchange some few freedom just to wake up with someone who adores me. But in real life, no one really adores anyone forever, it lasts for a time but not forever.
Anyhow, i still do believe being single is not choice..i think its a phase we all go through. the growing part of life where you see things differently or you begin to change. timing is a bitch but acceptance is everything. Love is still the most beautiful thing, it is unfair that we only find it in people, i think love should be everything; being able to help or do the things you love, seeing the rare things in life, experiencing whirlwind emotions and saving all those memories. i think that is love.
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